What is the reason/purpose getting married?

Had came across this question twice within a week....... did you ever think of this question? did you get an answer?

First time came across this question was discussing with my GM regarding on his wedding.... He ask me... what is the reason of you getting married? Emmm.... my mind is blank....... what is the reason? He and another senior colleague was saying to have a partner when we are old.... so no need to be alone.... is this the main reason? After that... I was thinking of it.... Is this the process of the life? My senior colleague told me that many of her friends who already married have the same opinion: If they are giving a chance again, they will not choose to get married. How about you?

Second time came across this sentence is yesterday reading the wedding magazine..... an article with the title of Why you are getting married? A few main points I would like to share here.......

"when we are the age of 20, we have a beautiful dream about our wedding,
when we the age of 25, friends and relatives are getting married one by one,
you will also ask yourself : when is my turn?
when the time of 30, your parents start nagging you, this time,
you will ask yourself, who am I suppose to marry with?
40, you might not think of what is the main reason for you to get married............,
marriage is for happiness, for a world of two person, having the same promise together forever and be happy......"

Some of the people getting married just for the reason of the certificate.. some for security purpose.... many of the people go through a tiring, grand, nice and beautiful wedding ceremony, this is only the way for proving yourself married? but some will prefer only for registration.... did we ever think of the main reason? the reason of you really really truly love him/her, want to protect or be with him/her forever? and I am agree to the author...

the main reason of getting married is ....... LOVE.........

Hong Kong vs First Time E.2

2nd time been to Hong Kong was with the gals gang..... how was the experience? wow.... another great trip with them too.... this time was take the Air Asia flight...... staying in Tsim Sha Tsui Minden Road......

One day before departure, we was gather in kim's house..... 3 soh po not even sleep until midnight and still chit chatting.... all started to unconscious after 1am...... unfortunately.... i was awake almost 3am (did i ever fall asleep??) heard kim said she want to wake up at 3am... but?? she still sleeping?? hehe..... this is very normal laa.... aunty n uncle also already wake up and chasing us to prepare...... lovely aunty had prepare breakfast for us.... big prawn beehon soup.... in the early morning.. 4am...... all eating while half sleeping... keke....

Tour guide in Hong Kong fetch us to hotel with a big big bus...... after check-in, we was in snoopy world 100% photo session and walking around the shopping (shopper still looking ard not yet buying) after photo session was changing destination to Mong Kok... wow... this is the time....... look ard Esprit, G2000, Baleno, Bossini, Giordano...... the climax reach to the top is... everyone buying a sport shoes.... n some buy 2 pairs and 3 pairs... kekeke.....

2nd days.... was so tired and so lazy to wake up.. however, no choice, our plan is to reach Disneyland earlier... but we also get late.... was bad weather..... after taking a few snaps, the rain start coming.... omg... heavy rain until we cant even hold our umbrella right... have no choice to go n buy raincoat.... omg... strong wind and heavy rain.... the new sport shoes is flooded.... =(( whole day weather is raining n stop, raining n stop..... all of us was wet.... go to watch 3D show... wow... so cold..... but all of us enjoy the show.... enjoy taking photos with cartoon characters.... enjoy the rides......

another raining day~ was ard causeway bay.... took breakfast there.... porridge with 'cheong fun'... so much until all of us also cant finish... but the porridge is very nice... slurpp.... =P after short walking, we went to wan chai for the golden flower... again.... photo sessions...

was having ice cream over there.. wow... so nice ice cream... hehehe..... next station is to the peak.... at first was planning take the peak tram to go, however long queue.... at last took taxi to reach there... went to the peak tower.... wow... so nice... all the tall tall buildings, ocean, strong wind.... enjoy there......

was there enjoy our mcdonald lunch over the nice scenery, breezing, cold environment.... heavy rain at night again.... haihz.....

went for last minutes shopping before we left Hong Kong to Macau..... unfortunately, all shops operate hours is from 11am..... but we still need to go back n check out before 12pm..... all walk separately to go their own destination to buy stuff.... only me n jen leisure walking.... taking photos.....

Took the HK-Macau ferry to Macau, is a big ferry just like inside the airplane...... 1 hr journey.... for sure... all of us fall asleep....... was having a bad impression with Macau... coz all the 'up ppl' was rude and not friendly...... check-in to the hotel and everyone start lazy to walk..... took the shuttle bus..but dunno where we are.. after lunch and asking ard... we took the bus to Ruin of St. Paul...... a nice building....

went to buy biscuit.... dry meat.... (is nice).... went to Senado Square.....

all the nice nice and histrorical building can find there.... again... having our photo session.....

At the night... for sure we can let go all the nice lighting casino... went ard the Wynn casino area to have photo session and went to visit the casino also..... wow... is big and nice..... minimum bet MOP200.... hehe... almost half of my one month pocket money..... good service and serving over there.... service staff with 'dim sum' trolley to sell cirgaratte, serve drinks......

the nicest casion we been is Venetian..... nice Italy style building...... walking ard....... taking pictures......

we not familiar with Macau... so no specific destination..... went to Macau Tower... at first heard taxi driver is free of charge... however, it charge MOP85 for going up to Tower....

we give up..... all also bankrupt after crazy shopping.... bought some Macau's souvenir there... with the Hello Kitty n Histrorical Building (magnet).....

That's end our day in Macau.... the flight was delay for 20mins... all of us was so tired and feeling want to reach home early n zzZZzzzZZZ........ the flight is only half full...... we enjoy our meal in the flight... n rest..... and reach airport already 12am+++....... very happy to reach home... took the heavy lugguage.. just pass to my GG and daddy.... hehe.. no worry to take heavy lugguage again~!!!!

Hong Kong vs First Time E.1

Just back from Hong Kong trip on Tues, 1st July.... was an amazing trip........

Been to Hong Kong for twice... many of my first time happened there....... 1st time take flight, 1st time went overseas with parents n bf, 1st time been to disneyland, 1st time been to ocean park, 1st time experienced No.8 typhoon, 1st time experienced walking under heavy rain etc, etc.......

The first trip to Hong Kong was free & easy trip with 1/2 day city tour. Not much of self travelling, mostly travel with tour guide with their transportation. After meet up with tour guide, was informed there is a announcement of No.8 typhoon, but we dont familiar the dangerous of this typhoon (Malaysian donot experience this b4 ma). Tour guide and hotel service staff advise us to stay in hotel or go only near by shopping complex walk walk. Was scared by their advise, therefore only go near by shopping complex (Shatin). We really get shock when we reach the shopping, shops are start closing.... bakery shop, grocery shop, cake shop..... all food stalls and shops are full with people... people like scare nothing to eat and buying lots of food and store.... like scene just like..... having war soon and people want to store for food~!! Scary man.....

Been to Hong Kong Ocean Park and Disneyland..... unfortunately again..... soooo many people inside the park where Hong Kong and China are having summer holiday... lots of kids and parents brought their children to the park....... Ocean Park 'jammed' until cant walk at all + raining and all people is taking their umbrella....



Disneyland? people are queuing to take pics with cartoon character.... was queuing up for 1 hr only to take pics with summer mickey and minnie..... due to the serious jam in Ocean Park and Disneyland.. we had missed out lots of shows, events....... the amazing one is the '4D' movie in Disneyland and the fireworks show... so romantic~ so nice~ so touch~!!!!

Shopping ard Mong Kok Area~ the clothes is very cheap compare to Malaysia, almost half of the price..... but dunno why...... no crazy buying? The only crazy buying and shopping is in Disneyland~ bought few decoration toys for new house.... clothes and souvenirs.......

Was a tiring trip... however is a good experience with parents and bf..... because gaining lots of experiences to look ard, typhoon, open my eyes... etc... etc......

To All My Dearest Friends~

If one day you feel like crying...
Call me.
I don't promise that I will make you laugh,
But I can cry with you.

If one day you want to run away...
Don't be afraid to call me.
I don't promise to ask you to stop...
But I can run with you.

If one day you don't want to listen to anyone...
Call me.
I promise to be there for you.
And I promise to be very quiet.

But if one day you call...
And there is no answer...
Come fast to see me.
Perhaps I need you!